22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

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You will constantly be challenged from within and without to be creative, to find new ways to keep romance alive. The explanations are clear and the advice honest and realistic but I found the positive notes rather bleak. Her fascination for the corporate world made her do a Masters in Business Administration from Andhra University. She has achieved this in an unique, realistic and professional way that will soon become essential reading for any woman in love with a man affected by Asperger syndrome. Sometimes a person with AS can get into a dangerous situation because of their temper— meaning they can make someone so angry that they provoke an attack.

I don’t want to sound like I believe that people with AS cannot be in successful long-term relationships.He may disagree with many of the points in this book, or he may agree with them but not understand what the big deal is. If you are new to the world of AS this kind of thing can really hurt and cause you to question why on earth he’s there with you, since he doesn’t seem to notice or want you. If he manages to make it through to a doctoral study, he will probably be happiest with that phase of his education, having more autonomy.

On the other hand, and most annoyingly, your man may behave inappropriately toward other women right in front of you, i. All the pivotal relationship landmarks are discussed, including the first date, sex, and even having children.

However, if AS is not recognized, then neither partner will be aware of the cause and this will often result in blaming and frustration. If you keep saying ‘no’ to everything that your wife or kids ask for, they stop asking you for anything. One way is by telling him your needs are not being met in the relationship; he may see this as an unprovoked attack. Since they can have guilty body language even when they’re not lying, they get accused of it anyway. A word of caution An AS male may keep his relationship with you completely separate from his friends, your friends, and everyone else in the world.