Little Black Book of Sex Positions

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Make it hotter: Receivers can try grabbing their ankles. That can give them stability and an added stretch to boost the sensation. Sex Positions for Couples: The Ultimate and Effective Guide to Spice Up the Passion in Couple's Sex Life. Discover and Master Kama Sutra. [Soft Cover ]

Why: Though it might not technically count as a position, mutual masturbation is one of the most intimate acts out there, since you're showing your partner what pleasure looks like to you when you're on your own. How to do it: Both partners lie on their sides, facing the same direction. The receiver brings their knees up slightly, while the giving partner slides up behind their pelvis and enters them from behind. (You may also know this as spooning.)This offers an opportunity for deep penetration and visual appeal. Because the vulva-owner's legs are pressed together, it creates a tighter fit, heightening the sensation if the partner's penis is a bit smaller. How to Do It Why: For vulva owners, this change in angle helps target the G-spot even more, and gives more control over the speed and depth of thrusts. Plus, giving partners have easy access to the clitoris. We all know 69 is one of the most traditional oral sex positions, but some people get insecure about their entire weight being pressed against the bottom partner. This variation eliminates that potential discomfort. How to Do It No matter your specific mobility needs, it can feel really good to press your penis, vulva, or perineum against your person’s palm, hand, or fist. How to do it: The giving partner sits at the edge of a bed or chair, while the receiving partner positions themself so their butt is in the giver's lap. Then, the receiver plants their hands firmly on the floor, stretching their legs out behind the giver's waist (it’ll probably work better if the giver supports their partner's thighs) and pump away.

I’m no [pro], but whenever I’ve had sex standing up and holding my partner in the air or up against the wall, it’s been mind-blowing for both of us,” says Jim, an experienced heterosexual male. “I suspect it taps into some of our innate gender differences— the strong man and the small woman — which, in turn, heightens the sexual experience. It also forces us to be in a full embrace, which furthers the emotional connection as well as our physical one. It’s physically demanding and not for all couples, but for those that can, it’s highly recommended.”Stand facing one another next to a bed, chair, or ottoman, suggests O’Reilly. The receiving partner bends a leg and places their foot on the elevated surface while the penetrative partner slides inside. Pro Tip How to do it: The giving partner sits cross-legged (yoga/pretzel-style), while the receiver sits in their lap facing them. The receiver should wrap their legs around the giver and hug each other for support. Why: For vulva owners who are also receivers, this sex position is awesome because raising the legs narrows the vagina and helps target the G-spot.