Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex: Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers

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Joyal, C.C. et al. “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2015) 12:328. Even if your sex life is already satisfying, it's normal to want to make it even better. Maybe your love life has been in a rut lately, or perhaps you’re already having great sex, but you want to start having even more earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex sessions that end in toe-curling orgasms. Well, you've come to the right place, my friend. Stress is an enemy of great sex. So is anxiety about performance. Minimizing both helps maximize your enjoyment of your partner. “If we can quiet our monkey-minds, put a stop to that ceaseless inner-chatter, we can open ourselves up to better sex,” Britton says. I have a book I can recommend wholeheartedly again as a bridal shower gift or a gift for women who are just getting used to sex. And I really, really love The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex. It’s likely my favourite. I got to write it from scratch, and Keith helped so much with it, and I think we found the right “voice” and the right balance to help guys see that if they want great sex, they need to figure her out and make it about her! If you can exercise hard enough to work up a light sweat without triggering symptoms, you should be safe to have sex.

And I didn’t get paid for that either!). I’m glad they said yes, though, because I did want to do this well. So I took out the gendered stuff, and I added a lot more about the sexual response cycle and orgasm.But I was still immersed in this very gendered way of seeing sex. Over the years, as I’ve listened more and done even more research, I knew that things had to change with The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex. Instead of prescribing to this singular idea of sex, Mourikis suggests adopting a new definition: sex, she stresses, should be “any physical, mental, emotional or spiritual experience that is pleasurable and erotic.” And we wanted to stress the threefold nature of sex–physical, emotional, and spiritual connection. In fact, that’s how both books are organized. Experiment. Try sexual positions that you both find comfortable and pleasurable, taking changes into account. For men, if erectile dysfunction is an issue, try sex with the woman on top, as hardness is less important. For women, using lubrication can help.

So, with that in mind, we thought it was about time we found out which position was the most pleasurable when it comes to oral sex to maximise the pleasure all round. Read full article on the best position for giving and receiving oral sex More books are on the way, including Period. by broadcaster Emma Barnett, Private Parts: Or How I Learnt to Live with My Dysfunctional Uterus by Eleanor Thom, and comedian Sara Pascoe’s Sex Power Money. As an older adult, the two things that may have brought the greatest joy—children and career—may no longer be as prevalent in your everyday life. Personal relationships often take on a greater significance, and sex can be an important way of connecting. Sex has the power to:I would also recommend investing in a vibrator for women, and spending more time on manual foreplay for both sexes,” says Susan. Wait to have sex if you have advanced heart failure, severe valve disease, uncontrolled arrhythmia, unstable angina, unstable or severe heart disease. Whether you're about to walk down the aisle, newly married, or you've been married for decades, The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery toward the amazing sex life God designed you for.

Sometimes missionary is exactly what we need and sometimes we're in the market for something a little... sexier. From sex tips that will help you reach orgasm where you might usually struggle, to clever techniques that can help you use sex to really reconnect, to everything a sex therapist wants you to know, we've got sex covered (or uncovered). For a number of reasons, though, many adults worry about sex in their later years, and end up turning away from sexual encounters. Some older adults feel embarrassed, either by their aging bodies or by their “performance,” while others are affected by illness or loss of a partner. It’s also well worth doing pelvic floor exercises, because the stronger these muscles are in both sexes the better sexual function and orgasm. Once upon time in America, there were many, many grown ups approaching 50 and even more after 50, who were rapidly becoming the major age group in the land. In spite of this fact, these wonderful pioneers were still trying to hang onto the youngsters who they remembered themselves to be. They wanted to look younger, act younger, feel younger, and especially, have sex liked they did when they were younger. After all, everyone on TV and everywhere else said this was very, very good and certainly quite possible. And who doesn’t like being told you can have exactly what you think you want for as long as you want to have it? Such myths keep some sparkle in our lives and become the fairy dust of our hopes and dreams. How else can we live happily ever after?Foreplay. Because it might take longer for you or your partner to become aroused, take more time to set the stage for romance, such as a romantic dinner or an evening of dancing. Or try connecting first by extensive touching or kissing. If any health issues come up for either partner, why not embark on a diet and fitness plan together? Teaming up like this and spending more time together will have the benefit of increasing intimacy and lifting mood. We’re busy behind the scenes trying to move this blog to a new domain. We’re going to take about 1200 posts with us, and then delete the rest. Our blog is so clunky and about to break that there’s not an easy way to do this, so we figured it would be better to start from scratch and do things right. Hopefully that will be ready soon.