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Never be too accessible. Men will bore of something that is easy to obtain and easy to access. Women should present enough of a challenge.
You should never, under any circumstances, take that as an invitation to try harder! That’s where most men make the mistake. They think they can win her over by calling her all the time, showing up at her doorstep, and ignoring every single “no” she’s ever said. As I said earlier, chasing will take up a lot of your precious time and will make you obsess over that guy so you might get caught up in the game and forget all about your friends. The thrill of the chase fuels them, and they just keep going on the next act, hoping the next one will be the one that finally gets her to say yes. A man’s actions tell him what’s important to him, and when his action show effort, he will rationalize you must mean a lot to him. Ignoring a man can have various outcomes. It might pique his interest if he’s genuinely interested in you, prompting him to pursue you more actively. However, he may lose interest altogether if he’s not interested or perceives it as a game.He was the first and so far only one who was able to avoid basic mistakes all other authors did and point out a few great truths in dating. So if you have a strong urge and desire to chase a man because he suddenly pulled away, think about this possibility that it might be a tactic or a manipulation to get you to lose your power and always feel like he is always close to disappearing. The only two other thing to mention is that (1) the narrative voice is a bit annoying, but I got used to it by the end of the book. And (2) I wouldn't buy any other of Bruce Bryan's books purely because it just seems too much of a money making excersize of mentioning all his other books along the way and of course; those other books are areas that people are interested in that hasn't been covered in this book. Set your standards high and be willing to assert yourself and defend your personal boundaries with the men you date. Don't be heavy on pleasing. Men don't want someone they can walk all over.
Looking for a reason why you shouldn’t chase women? Here’s the thing, when you decide to chase after a woman who doesn’t seem to be interested in you, you risk becoming so obsessed with her that you start ignoring the red flags. Maybe he is simply afraid of being tied down and isn’t ready to settle down. Whatever his reason is, you will never be happy in that relationship. After all, don’t forget that he wants to be the one doing the chasing… as long as he is interested in catching you. 10. He doesn’t want you to catch him You might have pursued the woman so relentlessly that you did not mind doing all the work. It will most likely continue to be one-sided when you finally get her. Trust me, you don’t want to be that guy. You don’t want to be the guy who can’t take a hint or can’t take no for an answer. You don’t want to be the guy who continues calling her every single day even after she said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to see you again.Confidently socialise with men, have confidence in your femininity. But unless is affects how she maintains her personal boundaries it only goes so far. All you need to do is to make your intentions known. Throw in the sweet gestures if you like, but do not go on a chase. Desire isn’t that difficult to spot if it’s mutual. Do not diminish the value of your love by lavishing it on a mere casual suitor. Female devotion when a man has not earnt it - its seen as desperation. A woman who is desperate to a man does not arouse his desire, merely his amusement. This can cause you exhibiting other unattractive behaviours - neediness and clinginess. Men first want to earn their way in. So stop chasing the wrong men! Know your worth. Like attracts like my friends. And trust that there is someone equally as awesome, just around the corner for you, waiting to find you too. One of the things that is causing you to chase a man even when you know you should not be doing it is the fact that you are too attached to the outcome of that relationship.
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