Chastity tasks: Tasks to assist you in your chastity training

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Learning goals and rewards begin with your selecting what he is to learn. He will ask for a reward of his choosing (you can limit his choices by using a list). You will teach him and watch his progress. When he learns the task, he has met his goal and is to be commended. When he shows prolonged retention of that learning he gets the reward. Training your man by coaching All very good information, but what about her bad habits? She’s human and she’ll have them too. Will she be able to “man up” and honestly say she may not be the best at handling money for example? Or will she just not say anything and head to the casino for a gambling spree? The latter is more likely – and on that one point the whole FLR plan falls apart. Partners need to be well aware of each other’s capabilities and the best person for handling each task. It still may end up with him doing household chores, but at least he is an equal partner instead of a slave. He doesn’t have to lose his self respect. The whole reason we have changed to an FLR is because the previous paradigm of a dominant male ego trying to lead the family failed catastrophically and my Wife was constantly trying to manage all of the fallout from that. Condition 1. If I am unable to do the task due to location, I may request to postpone the task until I am in a location where performing the task is appropriate. Lines- Think like the bad students writing “I will not chew gum” on the board over and over again. Same concept. Both of the writing punishments are effective because they require internal thought combined with a physical action. There is something cathartic that happens when you commit an idea or thought to paper. It helps commit the idea to memory.

I will ask you if you have any preferences regarding what color I paint my nails before I paint them. Daily Tasks: Service-based: These are rules or tasks that may include housework, preparing meals, or bringing the Dominant items. Examples: Clean out the closet, Have dinner ready for the Dominant at a specific time, or Bring the Dominant their coffee every morning.Fast forward a bit and I had asked her to spank me in regard to it excited me. More discussions that kind of brought out my desires to look after her. She did whip me a few times and then there was a break. She said she found it wrong to hurt someone. I said things like other people do it and that it helped me stay on a submissive headspace and so on. So now she whips me but not as punishment but as a reward and it’s her way of supporting me. She will say I am doing this for you. On the detail, when I am to be whipped, she will tell me to go and get ready. I have to get the ropes and toe them to the corners of the bed. I then remove my clothes and lie spread eagle and she ties me down and gags me because we both know I am too weak to endure on my own. At this stage I am questioning in my own mind if I am just too weird. Then she whips me. It’s insanely painful and I am totally focused on surviving the pain. Then it’s over. Now, She expects me to be a responsible adult who is able to self task and achieve the goals that support Her. Do I answer to Her at the end of the day? Yes of course I do. Do I worship Her? Absolutely

A positive learning experience provides rewards for goals met, praise for active participation and goal achievement. If you want your man to do the laundry to your standard, joyfully invite him to see how you do it. Explain what you are thinking as you go and have him repeat what you did giving him only positive reinforcement for what he is doing right and showing him what he needs to relearn. The goal is to learn how to do the laundry. Once he does give him affection and praise. Training your man by achievable learning goals and rewards When you’re on the receiving end of this type of punishment you may be asked to count the number of strikes. Counting aloud can really drive home the importance of the rule and the consequence for breaking it. ChastityDungeon.com offers hundreds of tasks. Some are BDSM-related (bondage, dildos, buttplugs, etc.), some are conditioning (writing, listening), some are even punishments (did you abort your previous session? did you not do the task like I asked?). We also have more general tasks, including creative ones, like taking a photo, or drawing a given subject. If you like physical activities, we have a bunch of those lined up for you, too. Are you into sissification? You're in the right place. Enjoy wearing diapers? Welcome! Enjoy horror movies? Hah, you won't, after you're done with the horror-related tasks. Do you just want some casual, fun tasks? We have you covered. What about self-improvement? Oh yes, we can get you oriented in that direction as well. Along with doing all the household chores that you've been missing to do lately. The program is only developed and tested on Windows 10. However, I have been told that it works fine on Linux using WINE and on Mac using Parallels. Uninstall: This is why we introduced task verifications. Optionally, you can submit proofs of your task completions. When you have to submit proof, you can't just think about doing that task anymore. This lifts your participation to a whole new and exciting level.We will agree on an estimated time you will spend in chastity. If you’re new to this one or two weeks might be a good start. If you’re experienced we set the preferred limit higher. I will adhere to any preferencethe Masterhave regarding which collar I am allowed to wear and for how long I may wear it each day.

Rules in BDSM are a list of expectations that, once agreed on, should be done when specified without prompting. Rules should be negotiated and discussed before they are carried out. The program may be closed and reopened at any time. When restarted it remembers everything that happened. In my opinion though, there is far too much emphasis of the Women having to do everything to ensure the dynamic functions. For example the Women should; organise, create, manage, ensure, lists, structure, rules, oversee etc. etc. Every day, when I wake up I would like an message telling me what you are going to wear that day and the name placement. Undergarments are to be included.This is obviously for someone who is experienced in chastity. You will own or acquire a strong steel chastity device, one that is of a cage construction for good hygiene and ventilation. Attention- Maybe it’s a sweet text or message or maybe it’s a voice message. Either way it’s special attention that is given to the sub as a reward for following directions. Sitting in a corner- Submissive sits in the corner of the room to have quiet reflection on the rule breaking. This should not be for an undetermined amount of time. Dominants should be careful to tow the line between correction and abuse. Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply. The desired outcome is to have a healthy relationship where you both feel safe, happy, and cared for. By following rules that are set by the Dom, the submissive can relax and trust that they are taken care of. When the submissive complies with the rules, the Dominant feels proud that he is able to have been given the gift of submission. The Dominant then feels accepted, desired, and confident like the Master they are. Power Play

Whips- This group includes regular whips, riding crops, and floggers. Impact from these types of instruments spread the strike out. Part of the draw of the lifestyle as a submissive is to relinquish control to someone else so that they can help you be the best version of yourself. It’s not all about pleasure, well, that’s relative. There is pleasure in having someone take charge of parts of your life. There is pleasure in exploring how far you can push yourself. That’s why submissives need Dominants. It’s about learning your limits and having boundaries. The Dominant that you gift with your submission will guide you and enforce the boundaries when you forget. How they enforce is between you both and is something that should be discussed frequently.I will also adhere to any preference you have to which body lotion or perfume I use after I bathe/shower.