MATURE LESBIANS (Lesbian Older Younger)

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Longer answer: That said, there’s a certain amount of difficulty associated with dating someone who’s just starting to explore their queer and/or poly side. Older single lesbians I know often feel like they can’t “waste any time” with dating that doesn’t go anywhere, for instance. Yet many of those same older lesbians have no trouble seeing the beauty, vitality and, yes, sexiness of the other women in their 60s, 70s and 80s who attend Conscious Girlfriend Academy classes and gatherings. I agree with everyone to be honest and upfront — some will be interested, some won’t but I think you’ll ultimately have many options. My additional unsolicited advice is to remember that you may find the relationship with your boyfriend gets strengthened or completely falls apart.

Dyke Nights have had a resurge and would be a great chance to have fun and meet people looking to date and/or hookup. At 61, I’ve had my own chronic illness challenges, too, and when I’ve dated women in their 70s, I’ve certainly been aware of both their human fragility and mine. Robin, 54 and Madonna, 61, are fascinating to listen to because their experiences are so different from the experiences of modern young queer people. Many of us have done a great deal of psychological healing and overcome a lot of trauma, and are better-equipped for love now than we were in the past.Whether you’ve been out for a long time or are just coming out now, there are challenges in seeking love at this age.

Her words inspired the name of a new Conscious Girlfriend Academy class: Coming Out and Coming Home. Madonna says that when she came out in the '90s, she was so grateful to be able to point to Ellen DeGeneres after she came out and say, "I'm like her.Do you want to leave your boyfriend, look for a woman who wants to date you, and figure out where to go from there?